dinkies over dolls

you are 6 years old in 1969 and your mom buys you Barbie dolls 

but you would much rather play with your brothers’ Dinky cars in the gravel driveway 

where you can construct an elaborate village out of rocks and make carports out of cardboard Mars bar liners and pretend you’re the dad who’s bringing home the bacon and 

not the stiff-legged mom whose only job is to look pretty and make dinner

because even at 6

you know there is something seriously sad about that